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Ashley Spivey

Ashley Spiveyis expecting!

TheBacheloralumrevealed on InstagramWednesday that she is just about seven weeks pregnant.

“Plot twist,” she captioned a snapshot of herself holding her ultrasound photos. “As y’all all know, I just went through the IVF process and we had decided to freeze the embryos to give my body a little more time to rest. We planned on transferring in May but I should have known, as with many parts of my life - if you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans.”

Spivey admitted that the pregnancy is still in its early stages, but she wanted to be open with her friends, family, and followers about her journey.

“This is my reality and I don’t want to have to stay silent about it because of taboos or a fear of jinxing it,” she wrote. “I’m scared and I’m nervous but I’m also overjoyed. I’d be lying if I said that I’m not constantly thinking of CJ but I have to think that he had a little part in this.”

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In a series of posts on her Instagram Story at the time, she explained that she was opening up about the loss of their son, whom they named CJ, to “give some insight into the worst day of our life.”

“I am very sad and very scared but more than anything, I am just completely heartbroken. I feel like a failure,” she went on. “I am going to try and get some sleep and tomorrow I will get to meet my sweet CJ.”

“I’m so sad that I couldn’t protect him,” she finished the heartbreaking announcement.

“The world took a step back today,” Hunsbergcaptioned the post.

Spivey, who appeared onThe Bachelorin 2011 during Brad Womack’s season, got engaged to Hunsberg in late December 2014. The pairtied the knot in May 2016.

source: people.com