Crystal Hefneris weighing in on the feud betweenHolly MadisonandKendra Wilkinsonregarding their past with the lateHugh Hefner.

“I was at the mansion for a DECADE almost four years ago now and these ladies and their drama were there years before that. So much time has passed,” wrote Crystal, 34, in her Thursday post, which she originally shared on social media platformMeWe.

Crystal Hefne, Kendra' Wilkinson, Holly Madison

“I side with Kendra here,” she went on to say, “Not sure why these women who shared an incredibly uncommon and rare experience (that will never be repeated in our lifetimes) can’t get along?”

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Crystal Hefner’s Instagram Story.Crystal Hefner/Instagram

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From L to R: Kendra Wilkinson, Holly Madison and Hugh Hefner.Michael Bezjian/WireImage

Kendra WIlkinson, Holly Madison, Hugh Hefner

“Maybe for the same reasons Holly andBridget [Marquardt]despise me for absolutely NO reason,” she added.

Crystal — who was married to Hugh from 2012 untilhis death in 2017 at age 91and starred alongside Madison, Wilkinson and Marquardt, 47, onThe Girls Next Door— concluded her post, “I hope one day we can all get along and compare experiences.”

“I had to sleep with him first,” she said of the late mogul. “I’m not trying to slut shame anybody or anything, but nobody ever got asked to move in unless they had slept with him.”

Holly Madison and Kendra Wilkinson.Michael Hickey/WireImage

Holly Madison and Kendra Wilkinson

AfterE News!posted about Madison’s remarkson Instagram, Wilkinson commented on the post, “Dude … it’s 2021,” alongside a laughing emoji.

“Times have changed,” she said in a follow-up comment. “I forgive and have kids to love and focus on.” (Wilkinson shares daughterAlijah Mary, 7 next month, and sonHank IV, 11, with her ex-husband, former NFL wide receiverHank Baskett.)

Listen to more of what Holly Madison and Kendra Wilkinson have said about Hugh Hefner and the Playboy Mansionbelow on our daily podcast PEOPLE Every Day.

Wilkinson and Madison had a falling out years ago and have feuded in the past over their differing accounts of what happened during their time living in the Playboy Mansion.

source: people.com