Melissa McCarthyis talented, hilarious, down-to-earth — and not looking to fit into any kind of mold.
“How boring would it be if we were all the same? We’re drawn to each other because of all our weird, unexplainable character quirks,” the host and co-executive producer of NBC’s latest season ofLittle Big Shotstells PEOPLE in this week’s cover story. “Life is short. Just be yourself!”
Raising two girls — she’s mom to12-year-old Vivian and 10-year-old Georgettewith heractor-director husband Ben Falcone, 46 — McCarthy’s mission to spread positivity and self-confidence is one that’s incredibly close to her heart.
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“My oldest has a really good head on her shoulders, but kids that age are always thinking, ‘Does someone think I look silly?’ I tell them it’s all silly and we’re all idiots!” says theOscar nominee. “The second you embrace that and haverealfriends, you realize that’s the fun part. Who is the dumbest and the goofiest? Those are the friends you’ll have all your life.”
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Luckily for McCarthy, 49, the star says her daughters have remained incredibly “level-headed” as they navigate their pre-teen years.
“At that age, I was eating dirt and running around a farm like a dingbat, but they have a much bigger view of the world,” she says. “I love to see my two girls just truly say, ‘I know who I am and I know what I like and what I don’t like.’ And they’re kind, so to have all of that come together is lovely.”
While shootingLittle Big Shots,McCarthy often found herself in tearson set because of the inspiring kids, like 11-year-old crocheting prodigy Jonah Larson, who donates his proceeds and goods to the Ethiopian orphanage from which he was adopted.

“These amazing kids are activists, they’re trying to save the planet or they’re doing anti-bullying rallies,” she says. “Or they’re just an eccentric kid who’s like, ‘I’m okay with being who I am!’ They’re wonderfully uncomplicated.”
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“These kids in particular are just so strong in their self and their concept of who they are and what they stand for,” she says. “If you think you’re doing something now — boy, you spend a couple months with kids that are just full-throttle helping people, and you’re like, ‘I’ve got more energy. I can do more!’ ”
Little Big Shotsairs Sundays (8 p.m. ET) on NBC.
source: people.com